Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) Therapy

Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often brings intense emotional highs and lows that can make each day feel uncertain. Many people experience deep fears of abandonment, shifting emotions, and challenges with self-image or relationships. At Stone Silo Counselling & Wellness, we understand the weight of these experiences and offer support every step of the way. 

BPD is treatable, and with the right support, many people learn to regulate emotions and strengthen coping skills while building a more stable sense of self. Our therapists seek to destigmatize the narrative surrounding the symptoms of BPD that is commonly perceived by others in society, to help you see yourself beyond the diagnosis or symptoms.

What is Borderline Personality Disorder?

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is a mental health condition that affects how a person thinks, feels, and relates to others. It is part of a group of personality disorders characterized by patterns of intense emotions, unstable relationships, and difficulties with self-image or identity.

Research shows that many people diagnosed with BPD have experienced complex trauma or significant childhood adversity, which often shapes how the condition develops. These experiences can deeply affect how someone learns to regulate emotions or connect with others. The diagnosis of BPD is not a reflection of who a person is, but rather a way to describe the emotional pain and coping patterns that have developed over time.

People with BPD may experience:

  • Intense and rapidly shifting emotions
  • Fear of abandonment or rejection
  • Difficulty trusting others
  • Impulsive or risky behaviours
  • Periods of emptiness, guilt, or shame
  • Challenges in maintaining stable relationships
  • Self-harm or suicidal thoughts

While these symptoms can feel overwhelming, treatment helps many individuals develop emotional stability, stronger coping skills, and a clearer sense of self.

Therapy for BPD
at Stone Silo

Our approach is built on empathy, clinical expertise, and evidence-based care. We help clients regulate emotions, strengthen relationships, and reduce harmful coping patterns. Every step of the process is grounded in self-compassion and resilience.

Therapy options include:

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)

A leading treatment that focuses on emotion regulation, distress tolerance, mindfulness, and interpersonal effectiveness.

Helps people recognize unhelpful thought patterns and build healthier, more realistic ways of thinking.

Support emotional awareness, strengthen connection, and improve relationship security.

Address the mind-body connection, trauma responses, and inner emotional parts to promote self-understanding and calm.

Encourage clients to explore personal stories, separate identity from struggle, and guide their healing with confidence.

Provide experiential ways to express and process emotions, especially for youth and those who connect best through hands-on methods.

Our team also supports related challenges that may accompany BPD, including ADHD, anxiety, depression, grief, self-esteem struggles, and major life transitions. Every treatment plan is personalized, and we work collaboratively to create strategies that are practical, sustainable, and empowering.

Borderline Personality Disorder Pricing

$170+
Per clinical hour

Our Team

Alyssa Strachan

Alyssa Strachan

Registered Psychotherapist, Play Therapist Intern - She/Her

My specialties: Client-centred therapy, Tabletop RPG therapy (Game to Grow Method), Attachment, Autism, Emotional regulation, Life transitions, Sexuality & gender identity, Grief

Age Group: 3 – 35 year olds

Serving: Waterloo

Price: $180 for individual therapy, $190 for Play-based Therapy

Play-Based therapy
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
CBT
DBT

Raquel Sutherland

Master Social Worker, Registered Social Worker- She/Her

My specialties: Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Attachment and Attunement, Somatic Experiencing, and Internal Family Systems

Age Group: 4+ year olds

Serving: Waterloo

Price: Individual – 50 minutes – $170
Relationship – 50 minutes – $190
I also offer 25-minute, 80-minute & 2-hour sessions

ADHD
Anxiety/panic disorders/OCD
Depression/suicide ideation
Emotional regulation
Borderline personality
Relationship Therapy
Family Counselling
Raquel
Sarah Allen

Sarah Allen

Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) - She/Her

My specialties: Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Narrative Therapy, Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT), Attachment-Based Practices, Psychodynamic Therapy

Age Group: 4+ year olds

Serving: Waterloo

Price: Individual – 50 minutes – $170
Relationship – 50 minutes – $190
I also offer 80-minute sessions

Trauma
Emotional Regulation
Anxiety
2SLGBTQIA+
Alcohol Addiction
Grief
Borderline Personality Disorder
Eating Disorders

Our Approach

No two experiences with Borderline Personality Disorder are the same. Our therapists provide a space that offers validation, practical tools, and compassionate guidance. By combining structured, evidence-based therapies like Dialectical Behaviour Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy with creative and narrative approaches, we help clients understand their emotions, express them safely, and build meaningful connections.

Our goal is to help you feel grounded, self-aware, and confident in navigating relationships and everyday life.

FAQs

Can Borderline Personality Disorder be treated?

Yes. With consistent therapy and the right support, many people living with BPD experience meaningful improvements in emotional stability, relationships, and overall well-being. DBT has a strong track record of success in helping clients manage symptoms and build skills.

Therapy is often a long-term process, but progress happens step by step. Some clients notice changes in self-awareness and emotional control within a few months. The pace depends on your goals and what works best for you.

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) teaches skills in emotion regulation, distress tolerance, mindfulness, and interpersonal effectiveness. These tools help clients manage intense emotions and respond to challenges in healthier ways.

Yes. Your privacy matters to us. All sessions are private and confidential. Your therapist will explain confidentiality and answer any questions during your first appointment.

Yes. Stone Silo offers both in-person sessions in Waterloo and secure virtual therapy across Ontario, giving you flexible options to access care in a way that suits your life.

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